I want to share something with you that completely changed the course of my entire life. Not just simple ‘getting what I wanted’, but the kind of change that transforms everything.
Too many times I wanted my life to be different from the way it was. And even when I didn’t know how to get confidence, love, health… – I couldn’t accept it. Which led me to even more pain and difficulty, until I had a breaking point, and discovered something that allowed me to break everything that was limiting me, achieve success beyond what I thought was possible, and begin to see life the way I’ve never seen before.
It’s something about what the world’s most successful and wealthy people have went through. But because I have experience in how our minds and our beliefs create reality – I was able to discover how to recreate it, so not only the they could experience the benefits of ‘Letting go’.
If you’ve been having things difficult, have been feeling overwhelmed lately and are trying to create change or manifest certain things you desire, but some of them just don’t seem to be working out… or if you feel like there’s something blocking you from creating the reality you want… this might be the most important thing you’ll ever read.
But first, let me tell you why I think some people get stuck while others seem to manifest effortlessly…
It’s not like some people are doing it wrong, or that they need to do something ‘differently’ in a secret or magical way. The truth is, most of us are already manifesting – but from a different place.
We’re not really manifesting from what we want right now. We’re manifesting from our past.
Here’s what I mean…
The Hidden Programming That’s Running Your Life 24/7
Everything we’ve ever experienced—especially those emotional moments that struck deep—get stored in our subconscious. And our subconscious doesn’t forget. It just plays the same “movie” over and over again, shaping how you see yourself, other people, and the world.
Let me give you a personal example.
When I was a kid, I had a painful experience of losing my father at the age of 6. It was so painful at the time, that I both remember and stuffed it to forget. My mom would just tell me that I always said she did everything not good enough, not like my father.
As I went through life, everything seemed fine. I had friends. I was doing everything everyone else were doing, trying to meet someone, go to university and so on. That memory was gone as if it ‘passed’.
But after studying Advanced Psychology I learned one crazy thing, of why I didn’t see how that memory, was manifesting in my life 24/7.
You see, research shows that emotional pain activates the same brain regions as physical pain.
Now if someone let you into a zoo and opened the gates of tigers and lions, you would immediately feel anxiety, stress and look to move from it. Heck… if you knew this was going to happen, your mind wouldn’t even let you come close to that zoo right?
You KNOW physically… the tiger can cause you pain if not kill you. But that’s the thing. The same way our minds perceive this potential of pain occurring, without us even having that experience YET, the same happens with all emotional pains that we remember.
How I Discovered The Matrix Inside My Own Mind
I didn’t see it until I saw myself getting jealous in relationship, and my heart was broken. I went all in to figure out how to make sure I never feel the same way. To never have jealousy. And what I found literally changed everything.
The same way like in the zoo example, every time there was a POTENTIAL, of her leaving – my mind saw that potential and created anxiety… negative emotion, to warn me of potential pain and danger. Every time I felt negative – I expressed it… with words, behavior, or even silence. It didn’t matter what I said…. – she could feel WHERE it was coming from.
Over time this compounded. She started changing perspective. She started feeling better elsewhere. And without knowing it, not only I was pushing her away (which was the least of what I wanted)… But I was manifesting the exact emotional memory in my subconscious mind – and she left me.
After I realized that this breakup was connected to my memory of losing my dad, I started becoming more aware and looking at the patterns.
My mom always said I pushed her and my sister away after that and didn’t like what they did. My friends were always guys that I kept at a distance. I always had difficulty with dating, having quite embarrassing moments of things failing, I didn’t know what to do, say or text. I was always playing it safe and wanting to be perfect, so I wouldn’t get rejected.
I started seeing how that abandonment was manifesting itself over and over and over. And how it was stopping me from meeting love, sabotaging relationship I had, and even preventing me from success and making money, because everything I was working on – I was never putting it out.
You might be thinking, yeah but that’s obviously trauma. But that’s the thing.
By today I wrote 7 books on this, I can change any belief and memory – I can’t get jealous anymore, I am always confident, I don’t fear any rejection, embarrassment, I have no procrastination or barriers left, I wrote 7 books, and made a loot of money, and live a good life every single day – without any change of getting sad or depressed.
Because I didn’t just change that belief and memory about abandonment. I got rid of all the painful memories and experiences that were holding me back.
What I can tell you from my personal experience, and seeing other people completely transform individual experiences, patterns and change what they are manifesting every single day – you are manifesting your reality right now. From every single memory and experience, dictating what you focus on seeing and experiencing – creating your fate.
The reason people don’t see this process happening, is twofold.
1. These beliefs and memories I am talking about are virtually invisible to all people.
Think about it, how aware are you, that how you felt standing in front of class, and being humiliated when you did something bad or a classmate made fun of you – that now every time you are about to be seen by other people, you find a reason not to?
Going to meet a person you like in front of others… Having to speak publicly… Do a presentation… The amount of anxiety we have is not coming from the ‘situation’. It’s coming from our perception about the situation, based on our memory.
This is why two people feel differently in the same exact situation. Because they see it differently. And beliefs are what controls what you see – hence our brain is directly connected to our eyes, and we have something called – Reticular Activating System. Like a laser focus to show us what is in our subconscious mind (memory bank) – and isolate everything else. Delete it completely.
2. Have you ever heard the term ‘The Matrix’?
This is the second reason why people don’t see this process, and for the most part – can’t break free from the reality that is being created from their past programs.
Beliefs are our survival. Literally.
For you to be able to survive, you need to KNOW that the lion is dangerous, and that you might die if you jump off the 10th floor of a building. This knowing is – belief. Memory. That we pick up from seeing tv, movies, falling down and learning on our own.
Where am I getting here?
The very fact, that one would claim responsibility that because of his beliefs he is ‘bad’, ‘not good enough’, ‘has problems in ones life’, ‘financial instability’…. triggers the protective mechanism, from acknowledging that the cause – is him.
The mind doesn’t allow to see, that reality isn’t caused by the outside world – but from inside. Especially how. Because that would automatically be in misalignment with our belief system.
For example: If someone came up to me when I was in relationship with my girlfriend at the time, and I said ‘I’m having this inner jealousy sometimes, that makes me express myself not how I want’, and you would tell me ‘you need to see a psychologist’ or ‘I know, it’s probably your past experience causing this’ – there’s absolute 0% chance, I would see it. I would say ‘no, but this was the situation, and she did that, and I know it’s irrational, but what if other guys will hit on her, why doesn’t she understand’ etc.
And if you try to convince me, it triggers other beliefs we all have ‘being not good enough’, ‘being wrong’ and so on… And literally I am a prisoner of my own mind, without any ability to see beyond what I believe.
The rational mind always finds reasons to prove to us that our beliefs are real, Reticular Activating system focuses on finding that proof, and trigger impulse response out of pain to everything that is contradicting – my reality.
This is literally how every argument happens. You say one thing, trigger another persons pain, they give their reasons, you give yours, and it’s literally like a fight… and if it gets uncontrollable and someone enters fear – uncertainty = you begin to say things you don’t mean or do things you wouldn’t normally do. Losing control. Being in the ‘unknown’.
Now why do I say this is a Matrix?
The Secret That Changed Everything For World’s Most Successful People
Because something magnificent happens, once you can break the matrix.
In my books I write about something called ‘Letting go’ experience. An experience that is responsible of many of the world greatest people’s success.
Have you ever heard about a success story, where someone had to go through extreme pain… and hit complete rock bottom, maybe even wanted to give up… but managed to turn it all around, and achieve highest success?
For example when Eminem was working 58 hours as chef in a fast food place, trying to ‘make it’, but had to move in with his family and experienced the highest pain when he couldn’t buy his daughter a Christmas gift, and had to witness her mom buy it, and say that it was from ‘daddy’? After he ‘let go’, he quickly became the world’s top rap Icon and multimillionaire star.
Or Les Brown who after overextending himself financially while chasing his dreams, lost his home, and had to hide from everyone, bathing in a bathroom sink, facing constant rejection he began questioning life. But after he ‘let go’ he soon got a job as a speaker, and became one of the most famous, multi millionaire speaker.
Or Dan Millman, who was a perfect athlete, had a perfect life, but then had an accident that shattered his leg into pieces, where they had to put it back with a metal rod. Coaches said his dream of participating in Olympic or even competing is over. And after he ‘let go’ he went back into training and finding ways that were deemed impossible, and won an Olympic Gold Medal.
Or Julien Blanc, who went to U.S to become a pickup coach, started seeing success and pushing boundaries to get more fame, more money, more success… until one day his behavior with women got so off that he was banned from entering UK, all newspapers started writing that he’s currently ‘The most hated man in the world’. Getting threats every single day, he started hiding, got sick.. fat… depressed. Until he came to a point of ‘Letting go’, and then he took this public shame image, and turned it all around to where now he’s literally transforming lives, like nothing happened, doing work and sharing out of abundance, rather than compulsive need for more.
The Most Difficult Experience to Live Through
Letting go means – accepting death. Uncertainty. Unknown (Not Knowing).
This is when you surpass the level of your highest fear… and accept that what you KNEW… didn’t kill you… and after you surpassed your worst – you survived.
In Eastern Hinduism this is expressed as The first chakra, muladhara, or “the root chakra”. It is the very first chakra of – survival. Once you open this chakra, only then you become free to go into opening all others.
I want you to realize just how powerful this is.
Back in 2015 I had this experience of letting go, which led me to discover The QPH Method… and ability to change reality. To change subconscious beliefs.
I was suffering from an autoimmune condition, up to a point where I was hiding from the world, seen multiple different doctors and my body was disintegrating from inside-out. When I had wounds coming up, and not closing, I called the emergency and I asked for help. But they told me ‘we can’t help you, go to the pharmacy, maybe they can help you’. This is when I said to myself…
‘What’s the point?’… I accepted the worst case scenario…
I didn’t do anything stupid. And I had a holiday planned to go see my friend, where I actually recovered my health. But ever since then – my life was never the same. My mind was no longer clinging on to my beliefs, and the ‘known’ reality, the way that it always was. It was free.
At first it didn’t feel much different (and I didn’t see it consciously back then). But over time, my mind began to see potentials where it didn’t see before. When I had massive anxiety every single day and again… reached the highest level of pain – this time, I just sat down and figured out how to reprogram my mind and create beliefs of confidence (something that no one could do). And after 21 days, and now for over a decade – my confidence and self esteem has never took a hit – and keeps growing stronger.
After I had my jealousy problem, I found how to make sure I can never get jealous ever again – I identified the painful memory and limiting belief – and again changed the way I saw that experience. I can never feel fear of being left. Happiness, success, financial life. I reshaped every single thing about my life.
This may seem cool to talk about, but there’s something I am far more proud of, and excited to share with you. Because, I also have discovered how I can help you have this experience of Letting go – without having to reach that highest level of pain, that most people never even come close to in their lifetimes (because today we have so many ways to escape pain or create an easier life).
I want to share this with you, because I know not only that this will open doors to change in your life, to new manifestations, to you attaining your deepest desires. But also allow you to find the exact path and exact road, that just like for me – lead you to your dream life. To no longer be captive to your current reality – and to create a new one.
But right before I do, I want to share with you one critical element. Right now you may not believe in ‘conspiracy’. And I respect that you believe, in whatever you believe. But I want you to understand, why it is so hard for people in the first place.
In 1900’s, one man became wealthier than the whole United States. Yes JD Rockefeller. To this day I think he is the best businessman the world has ever seen. For one simple fact – he hired worlds most talented psychologists and PR (Propaganda) people, such at a caliber of E. Bernays (Freud Grandson) to structure systems of ‘trust’ to bring him more profit.
One of these was…
Education System Reform Impact
After he started oil refineries, in order to build large monopolies – he needed more employees. I am not going to touch on Women’s Liberation, but he played a big part into making sure that new schools get built, and that more kids are sent to schools to become employees.
One of the ways to condition better employees was to punish free will and DOING what they want, and reward getting outcomes, good results and be approved. To make sure people do what they are told, listed to instructions, don’t stray away from the path – and produce good results be happy for GETTING money. (Notice the reversing of human behavior and motivation in all caps).
And one of the ways to ensure that people don’t breakaway from this system and don’t start doing what they want, such as start a business themselves, or go after their passions was to associate pain with ‘not knowing’. So that people always stick to what is known and what is given, and never stray away from the reality that they will be given. So throughout all years kids have to be punished, for not knowing, for being uncertain. (which is on the other side of beliefs – knowing – certainty)
To punish, against the very mechanism – of KNOWING how the world works, so that we can survive in it.
This has strengthen the Matrix, and our ability to let go of what we believe and know to be true. This is what blinds us from ever finding the cure to our own problems, that may be caused by our own mind – and pass away responsibility to the outside world. That if I feel bad – ‘he made me feel this way’. That if my relationships are breaking ‘all guys are jerks’. I just keep ending up with them. ‘It’s bad luck’.
And we never see the real cause and the real solution.
Also this is what shaped society, to want things fast and easy, to want them now. To DO no working and GET things. To go to work and hate it. To not know what we want to do after university and not find our passions. To GET things we don’t need, to GET approved and focus on chasing things, consuming, buying, instead of doing and living free. To have fear of failure and fear of losing what we GET.
We are literally manifesting out of these beliefs that were created for us, by a businessman, who masterfully used Psychology which in his own words he said ‘I don’t need a nation of thinkers, I need a nation of workers’. He filled his factories up and created not just a monopoly, but a kingdom to rule over.
And I am not going to tell you about other things he did, after U.S government, dismantled his monopoly and he realized, that he doesn’t have power over all systems. Before instating Fed Reserve Bank, Medical industry, Pharma, reworking media and so on.
The things I hint here, are entirely blocked from most peoples minds, because it’s not in the reality they know. And it wouldn’t match their belief system, where in the subconscious mind – ‘it feels painful not to know’. Where you focus on seeing unknowns… reflecting and creating a self-image of ‘not knowing’.
Besides attracting common arguments and pains when we watch the news, this limiting belief is also manifesting to protect ALL other beliefs, that are built on this very first belief that we create as kids – survival.
There’s a reason fight club has this quote:
‘It’s only after we’ve lost everything, that we are free to do anything’. – Tyler Durden, Fight Club
Now I’m going to share with you how to let go of the known and – exit this matrix.
How To Break Free From Your Reality’s Prison (The Method)
The biggest obstacle in of letting go, is seeing the solution. Many people as they read what I wrote, will find a reason for why this sounds like bs or why it doesn’t work or focus on the person they don’t like that I mentioned as a reason not to do this exercise.
Essentially, manifesting their current (old) reality, and not allowing to manifest what could be (new) reality.
This is why religion wars happened, and two sides couldn’t see eye to eye and killed millions. This is why you can’t tell a drug addict to quit drugs. Beliefs = survival. Even if it’s the very cure of the problem.
So, this is what I want you to do now:
STEP 1: List out evidence to support new associations.
Take a notebook or a piece of paper and answer the following question, by writing EXAMPLE experiences, where you felt or experienced the following (from your perspective):
- How normal does it feel to not know? What experience you had where it was painful to not know or be uncertain, and how normal did it actually feel? (focus on normalizing this experience, from perceiving it when you are stronger and you know you are more capable)
- How normal does death feel? How accepting am I of unknown? (Acknowledge that it’s natural part of life, anything can happen and that it’s okay to be in unknown)
- How certain am I? How I always know things? (focus on seeing your self and your identity as someone who always knows things, list out times and experiences where you clearly ARE someone who knows and is certain of things)
- How I always survive? How am I always alive? (focus on moment you are in right now, acknowledge it, write it down describing in your own words. Write down examples where you overcame fear, or pain and were okay or even survived some near-accident… acknowledge that by all these evidence – ‘I am always alive’)
*Go back to the questions and enrich this list of examples. Make sure you have a good list of about 5-10 experiences.
STEP 2: Create a habit of finding and SEEING this proof.
Now, after you’ve answered the 4 themes of questions, and you have lists of examples in each one, all you have to do is take that notebook or sheet of paper, and re-read every single night for 30 days.
To do this for 30 days in itself can be challenging if you are tired, had some drinks or just forgot. So try to associate this exercise with something else that you’re already doing, such as – right after I brush my teeth, I read this list; or right before I turn off the lights in my room or right after I set the alarm, I must do this, put it down and go to sleep.
When you link a new thing, to an old thing – it’s easier to remember that it’s something you do. But I hope sheer excitement of the benefits I described earlier, would be enough to realize, just how important this is.
If you feel like you can read this list more often, feel free to do so. This way you will ‘let go’ of holding on to your ‘known’ reality, so much faster. And you will develop a stronger belief of acceptance (gratitude that you have – knowledge).
Mistakes to avoid:
Now based on how our beliefs work, there’s one possible mistake that can be made, and it’s better if i tell you now, so that you make sure you avoid it.
– You have to make sure that when you READ – you don’t change the examples, and your answers.
– Or if you want to answer every time from scratch – you don’t change the questions you are answering.
This is very important, because if you change what you are feeding into your mind, your mind will not develop a – habit. And you will not break the programming of this Matrix reality. It would just waste you time and you would continue with having life manifest itself in a pre-determined fashion (fate), with all limitations, barriers and invisible beliefs holding you back.
When you re-read the same answers, you are feeding and repeating the same proof into your mind, by actually experiencing it as you re-read, and TRAINING your mind, sending energy, to create SPECIFIC new pathways in your brain, essentially rewiring your brain cells.
This is what will begin to neutralize the emotion of pain, every time Fear (uncertainty) situations get triggered in your life, and often in those moments of conflict – your perspectives will begin to change. The beliefs that are built on the first belief – like a domino piece – will begin to break.
Because this is my expertise and I helped many people achieve this ‘letting go’ experience and change their lives completely, it’s also important that you know what to expect.
What To Expect When You Start Breaking The Matrix
You have to keep in mind that your natural urge will still be to ‘get things’. Whether money, relationship or anything else you desire. And as fast as possible.
But this is not what this limiting belief does.
This limiting belief of survival allows for – change. Transformation.
The moment you begin to change this belief, everything else changes OVER TIME. For example:
I had the fear level association with ‘being left’ when I lost my dad. Now I go through life, and I find it painful to be rejected… Also at a really high painful level, because that implies people can leave me. So one limiting belief, creates another. Now when I stand in front of class in school, it feels even more painful I was to make a mistake in front of the whole class… Now making mistakes becomes a limiting belief and I might avoid doing work, or putting it out there… and so on.
But when fear – is no longer painful. When it’s not longer painful to be hurt by ‘uncertainty’… when anxiety doesn’t have the same grip over me… I might have that experience of ‘being left’… I meet a girl, everything goes good and suddenly she meets another guy and my hopes are gone = it doesn’t hurt as much. I begin to view being left, as not that painful. My perspectives change. The next time I don’t fear approaching a new girl as much… I am more myself… it’s more authentic, attractive – and it work out.
All of our beliefs are connected. And we have infinite number of them. But over time this transformation is extremely big and profound. How come?
Much like The Law of Attraction, everything also works through another universal law – the law of compound interest. If you look at my second example, If you keep living your life that way – you keep getting stronger, and better, and all your self-belief and how you see yourself begins to change and improve = and you manifest and attract entirely different circumstances, than if you were to keep going in the first.
On top of that, any conscious manifestation that you purse (what I call spontaneous manifestation), through visualization or other exercises – now it is no longer bound by your current reality. Which means it becomes far easier to manifest things our of your imagination, once you make them real in your subconscious mind.
This is when law of attraction, dreams and visions begin to manifest without barrier and conflict of the current reality. This is how all those successful people I spoke about, begin to make their dreams come true – without chance.
You are an extremely powerful manifestor, but this manifestation ability has long been suppressed to make sure that you maintain your life from school, to university, to a job, to a pension time. Listen to the news, be a good employee, pay your taxes – and maybe one day retire.
But you were not born to live a life like this. You were born free, with free will to do and have and create anything you want. Whatever you have on your mind to make it a reality.
Now it’s up to you, to break the Matrix, and begin experiencing your desired reality.
Change is inevitable, but transformation is a choice.’ – Heather Ash Amara
*P.S I was not planning to write this article and to reveal this information. It was a moment of impulse. I finished watching Harry Potter with my sister, sat down and wrote it.
So if you’re reading this, know that you were destined to come across this article by fate. Something inside you has manifested you finding this piece of information.